I realised why I was always tired and brain fogged despite being healthy
DiscussionIf you constantly feel tired or foggy despite being healthy, it might not be physical. It could be your brain reacting emotionally to a life that feels meaningless or disconnected from your goals.
I've felt tired or foggy for as long as I can remember, since I was a teenager really. And I've always lived a pretty healthy lifestyle. I've done all the checkups, bloodwork, sleep, supplements, diet, you name it, and everything came back fine. Yet I always felt like my brain was working under a thick blanket, like I was there but not really there.
Then I came across a video that completely shifted how I look at it. Basically, tiredness can be an emotion. And emotions, even though they feel mental, show up in your body, like when you're anxious and your stomach turns or your muscles tighten. Tiredness can be your body's way of saying, I don't want to be here, this isn't meaningful, let's just shut down.
That made me remember something from when I was younger. My parents used to send me to sports training I absolutely hated, and I figured out that if I pretended to be asleep they'd sometimes let me stay home. I started feeling tired right when it was time to go. Almost like my body learned to feel tired to protect me from something it didn't want to do. Maybe that never stopped.
Recently I went through a phase where I wasn't strict about sleep or food or anything, but I felt insanely energised and sharper, even tireless at times, because I was doing something I truly believed was worthwhile. I could sleep less and feel more alive than ever.
So now, when I catch myself dragging through the day, I ask: how will I feel after doing this? If the answer is proud, that's usually enough to override the fog. If it's the same or worse, maybe the task doesn't belong in my life, or I need to reframe it. I know it sounds too good to be true, but it works for me. Just sharing in case someone else is wondering why they always feel tired when everything on paper looks fine.
I needed to read this today. Thank you.
I've been this way for the past 10 years, and I knew it had to do with moving somewhere that has its challenges. For the first time in my life I have no goals. I feel defined by my failures. I'm comparing myself to others, which I never used to do. It's time for me to pick myself up and gather what I need to take back my life.
Your comment made my day.
This speaks to me. I'm a student, and outside my coursework I'm demotivated by everything I don't value. I always suspected something non physical, because I'm the picture of perfect health, I'm literally typing this at the dentist, yet I'm always so burned out.
Yep. I felt so relieved when it finally clicked, because for the longest time I felt like something was wrong with me.
Question: if you ask yourself whether something is a waste of time or will make you proud, and the answer is no, but the task has to be done, how do you handle that?
Today I had a task at work that was going to take a long time and was boring, but it had to be done. After it came a more fun task. During the boring one I had brain fog and felt exhausted, just like you describe. How do you handle that mentally? We can't skip everything we don't like, unfortunately.
Tasks like that are unfortunately unavoidable for all of us. In that case I first imagine not doing it. How would I feel, and what would happen? Would I be anxious or ashamed? And if I did finish it, what would I feel at the end? Relief, accomplishment, something else positive? I also try to see how the task might be meaningful in my life, directly or indirectly.
I also find that when my days are mostly filled with things I find meaning in, it has a ripple effect. It improves my mood, and that makes me work harder and makes the mundane tasks feel easier, if that makes sense.
I recently noticed something too: I never actually take the time to do nothing. Really nothing. When I go to the toilet I take my phone and read the news. When I'm on the couch the TV is probably already on. There's always something stimulating me.
So I forced myself to lie down and stare, and after about 10 minutes it felt like all my thoughts suddenly rearranged themselves. Now I do it after every shower and it seems to really help.
This is great. But also, get checked for sleep apnoea.
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